I’ve been following the Brex discussions all week, and I keep coming back to the same thought: this story has lessons for anyone building a startup, not just in fintech.
I ran a startup that failed. I know what it feels like to watch something you built not turn out the way you imagined. Brex didn’t fail in the same way - they had a $5B exit - but there’s still something deeply instructive about their journey.
Lesson 1: Your Early Customers Are Your Story
Brex’s origin story was beautiful: two young Brazilian founders, building corporate cards for startups, backed by YC and top VCs. The startup community embraced them because they were building for US.
When they walked away from that community in 2022, they didn’t just lose customers. They lost their narrative. They stopped being the scrappy startup underdog and became “that company that abandoned us.”
The lesson: Your early customers are part of your identity. Treat that relationship with care, even when the economics look challenging.
Lesson 2: Pivots Have Costs You Can’t Measure
The 2022 pivot made sense on paper: better unit economics, bigger market, more sustainable business. But the hidden costs were enormous:
- Brand trust destroyed
- Competitor given an opening
- Internal culture disrupted
- Two rounds of layoffs
- Three years of rebuilding
Those costs don’t show up in a financial model. They’re real anyway.
The lesson: When evaluating a strategic pivot, the spreadsheet analysis is the easy part. The hard part is understanding the intangible costs.
Lesson 3: Cash Pressure Makes You Desperate
Brex was burning $17-22 million per month when they made the pivot. That’s not “running lean and experimenting.” That’s “we need to change something big or we’re dead.”
Desperate decisions are rarely good decisions. When you’re under existential pressure, you grab the most obvious lever (cut unprofitable customers) without fully thinking through second-order effects.
The lesson: Manage your burn rate before you’re forced to make desperate choices. The best time to optimize unit economics is when you have runway to experiment.
Lesson 4: Competitor Dynamics Are Unforgiving
While Brex was pivoting, laying off, restructuring, and pivoting again, Ramp was compounding. They welcomed Brex refugees. They shipped features. They raised capital. They won.
Markets don’t wait for you to figure out your strategy. Your competitors will take every advantage you give them.
The lesson: Never take your eyes off the competitive landscape. Internal challenges can’t become an excuse to let competitors pass you.
Lesson 5: Valuation Is Not Success
Brex was “worth” $12.3 billion in 2022. They just sold for $5.15 billion. Neither number reflects the real value of what they built.
The founders built something used by 25,000 companies. They employed hundreds of people. They created real innovation in corporate spend management. That’s success by any reasonable measure.
But they also fell short of what they could have been. They’re now a subsidiary of a bank instead of an independent category leader. That’s also true.
The lesson: Don’t let valuation define your sense of accomplishment. Build something real, serve customers well, and the outcomes will sort themselves out.
My Take
Brex’s story isn’t a failure story. It’s a “what could have been” story. They had all the ingredients for category-defining success and made choices that limited their potential.
For those of us building things, that’s actually the scarier lesson. It’s not about avoiding obvious mistakes. It’s about recognizing that small strategic choices compound into large outcomes.
What lessons are you taking from the Brex story?