The Are-You-Sure Confirmation Step Your Users Learned to Click Through
The confirmation dialog is the cheapest safety layer in the AI agent toolbox. It's a string, a button, and a callback. The product manager who asked for it left the meeting believing the agent was now safe. The engineer who built it shipped it in an afternoon. The compliance reviewer who audited it ticked the box. And the user who saw it for the seventh time that morning had already moved their mouse to the Confirm button before their eyes finished reading the title.
Within a week, the confirmation step is no longer a decision point. It's a rhythm. The agent says "are you sure you want to send this email?" and the user says yes the way they say bless-you at a sneeze. The day the agent proposes an action that is actually wrong — wrong recipient, wrong amount, wrong tone — the user confirms it with the same automaticity they used for the six correct ones before it, and the email goes out, and the team writes a postmortem that says "user error."
It wasn't user error. It was a system that mistook the existence of a click for the existence of consent.
