Build vs Buy for the AI Gateway: The Decision That Locks in Your Next 18 Months
The build-vs-buy decision for an AI gateway is almost never made on a framework. It is made on instinct in week one by an engineer who likes the problem, and then revisited in month nine by a director who is tired of the bill. Neither moment is when the decision should actually be made, and neither party is evaluating the choice on the axes that matter eighteen months from now.
The seductive thing about the build path is that month one is cheap. A two-hundred-line proxy in front of OpenAI, a switch statement that routes "claude" requests to Anthropic, a retry loop, and the team has shipped what looks like a gateway. Month nine, that proxy is twelve thousand lines of half-finished retry logic, prompt caching with broken invalidation, cost attribution that nobody trusts, fallback routing that triggered the wrong way during the last incident, an observability schema that diverged from the rest of the stack, and per-tenant rate limiting bolted on after the first enterprise customer asked. Every feature is a worse copy of something the buy path would have shipped on day one. The engineer who wrote the original two hundred lines has left.
